might have to give that a try, i've tried everything else i can think of, the 3 way you are referencing is the t-fitting with the black line? i saw 2 lines coming into the t, do you just add a line to it when you get ready to flush?yes in the first part of the post it is correct. In my system I just built I removed my ASV in favor of a 3 way valve after my last carbon to manually flush when I change those and an electronic shut off valve in the product line.
see the pics here: https://www.reef2reef.com/threads/monster-eight-stage-rodi-creation.931411/