i would like to think i help out new reefers quite a bit
as a reefer who has been in the hobby for a long time i always share my experiences with anyone who asks
my local club is extremely new reefer freindly and we as a group have helped many get started
i also have a science background and like to experiment a bit, and share both the good and bad i encounter without predudice because i am not trying to convince anyone my way is the only way.
a good exp. of that is in lighting; i have tried every type out there and give a no holds barred answer if your looking at PC, VHO,T5, MH or LED tech with both the pros and cons. i have also done bb, ssb, and dsb and again although i have a personal preference for me, i will help someone do whichever they choose for themselves - correctly
i think too often people come across as this is the only way to new comers, so they are left to choose who they believe not the facts about each system
in this regard i think many advice givers actually are more harmful then productive. i think all advice needs to be predicated with -"this is what works for me" or "this seems to help" but there are many ways to acheive the same end goal and have a beautiful reef tank