I ended up going with a Midas blenny and green mandarin. Website has everything 25% off so got those 2 fish, tuxedo urchin and RFA for $113 shippedThese can move 3-5lbs rocks as they age.
I wouldn’t say they become a grey lump as they mature - I find them to be quite pretty still but that’s me saying this when I also have a wrasse that many find ugly once it matures. CUC is often on the menu - Cleaner shrimp usually get avoided due to their big role.
Personality wise, they do have a personality that is fun to watch… if you don’t mind watching a wrasse destroying your rock scape that is.
dragon wrasse will be a future endeavor.. they are cool fishes but man I would despise my rockwork being moved around lol