Well it looks like it has been about 100 days since I started this thread. I have changed so much. Happy to say it was all worthwhile! I feel like I changed everything. The corals are really looking good. Dormant corals have started growing and I see colors that I have never seen. The WD is picking up steam and the branches are getting fuller with polyps (not really hairy yet, but getting there).
The quick version of what I did.
-Got salinity back in line - bad refraction fluid
-Lowered DKH from 12.5 to 8ish
-Lowered phosphate from .25 down to below .1
-Less quantity of food, but more often
-Removed GFO/Phosguard
-New T5s (different spectrum)
-More regimented amino/coral food dosing
-Better tank clean up - more often
-Raised temp from 75 to 80 degrees
-Dosing MicroBacter 7
-New gyres in all tanks for better flow
-Started turning off pumps for feeding
I know I did more but this off the top of my head. Thanks for all the advice!!!
Cheers! Mark