Best answer is to remove one of the yellows. All the other suggestions here may work, but they also may not. Given the timeline of the behavior change, you may also need to consider that your tank is too small for the bigger one. I had something similar happen with two hippos in a 180; they were fine when small, but as they got bigger they became increasingly unhappy with each other to the point that I had to rehome one of them. Still have the one today (he's 7" now).