In my experience, brittle stars can actually survive a lot of dips. they will usually come out during a dip because it is not a fun experience, and if i see one, i try to save them. Not always the case though.
One of the biggest tells to me in your pictures is the bands on the legs (or tentacles). Aiptasia can have bands and stripes, but they usually aren't uniform in width and spaced evenly, they tend to vary in width and distance between the bands. One of the other tells, looks like the legs are textured, even though blurry, they dont look smooth. Aiptasia have smooth tentacles, despite having sometimes spotty or banded patterns, you wont see three dimensional texture. If it moves and doesn't appear in the same place, what would be the "oral disc" is never fully revealed (always tucked partially into the rocks or corals), and the tentacles are textured with even spaces and widths of the bands, then I'm 98% positive you are dealing with a brittle star.