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It helps keep a healthy relationship. But mine is also quite involved with my tank and therefore sometimes notices things before I do lolWait … I have to tell my SO? I might have been reefing the wrong way all of this time
You are right. My SO knows she can stop my plans the same way I can stop here’s…which is basically not at all. We trust each other and I have a free hand here. She only complains when some device I buy makes too much noise. And she fights on the side of the tank life. So I may never treat any of the animals wrongIt helps keep a healthy relationship. But mine is also quite involved with my tank and therefore sometimes notices things before I do lol
I usually get the “go ahead, cause I know you’re gonna do it anyway” statement. Or get this cause it’s pretty
they always know lolDon’t have one but a reefing buddy of mine said he bought the gem tang for 75. Shh she doesn’t know
This is 100% it for me. She actually likes the hobby (I do all the work, but she has been the decider on a number of our inhabitants), but she's not thrilled Saturday AM when I say "I'll be back in 45 minutes, I just have to go grab a couple of corals from this guy..."I do try yo keep it as cheap as possible, but what ticks her most is not the money, but the time spent away trading corals on weekends. Lol
Great partner you got!First time I dropped a lot on reefing gear I told her "I work hard and this brings me joy and balance"
Now when ever I have a bad day she asks me if I need something for my tank.
This happens to be my general tactic when shopping…. LOLWhen I walk in the house with a box of stuff from my LFS and she gives me the stink eye I just tell her it was on sale -_-
Shh at least ge bought time to make up an excusethey always know lol
At least you got a wife who likes this.Part of my wife’s issue is she wants what we can’t have. She’s “I want a candy cane shrimp (cleaner shrimp)” “oh and I want this Wrasse or that Lionfish” that both will eat the shrimp.