Hey kiddo just keep trying to feel better and try to focus on healing. You have a big group of support people here. Sorry your getting it from all directions.
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Hang in there sarah. You are Proven Tough and I think this instance calls for prayers for you at this time !!!Hey friends,
Yes I have been super quiet umm yeah. In short there has been a nuclear bomb literally dropped on basically my whole family (no deaths FYI, no medical cancer etc,). However because of how sensitive it is and severe I just can’t post it. (Umm and it’s not me that has the issues). Because of this I have gone kinda in a really deep dark cave to hide. The worst part is I don’t even have a clue how to process this event. Not to mention any one else in the whole family. What I can say is that I have missed my friends and don’t worry I’m still hear. This has been a nightmare for me 24/7 for the last ten days, and sadly it will never go away. I feel like I’m in a chess game and I can normally think 4-5 moves ahead. In this situation I was caught off guard and I have no idea where to move.
I did add an urchin to help with my Gha and lots of Mexican turbo snails. Can’t find my slime ball sea hare but most say he buried himself in the sand and will emerge some day.
Hey kiddo just keep trying to feel better and try to focus on healing. You have a big group of support people here. Sorry your getting it from all directions.
Sarah, I'm terribly sorry you and your family are going through something like this! I can understand wanting to pull back and hide. I haven't been nearly as social since my wife filed for a divorce. I get it that it isn't about not wanting to reach out and interact with friends, it's much more complicated than that.Hey friends,
Yes I have been super quiet umm yeah. In short there has been a nuclear bomb literally dropped on basically my whole family (no deaths FYI, no medical cancer etc,). However because of how sensitive it is and severe I just can’t post it. (Umm and it’s not me that has the issues). Because of this I have gone kinda in a really deep dark cave to hide. The worst part is I don’t even have a clue how to process this event. Not to mention any one else in the whole family. What I can say is that I have missed my friends and don’t worry I’m still hear. This has been a nightmare for me 24/7 for the last ten days, and sadly it will never go away. I feel like I’m in a chess game and I can normally think 4-5 moves ahead. In this situation I was caught off guard and I have no idea where to move.
I did add an urchin to help with my Gha and lots of Mexican turbo snails. Can’t find my slime ball sea hare but most say he buried himself in the sand and will emerge some day.
Hang in there sarah. You are Proven Tough and I think this instance calls for prayers for you at this time !!!
So sorry. Prayer works and Our Lord Never sleepsI definitely need all the prayers because this situation needs a miracle literally. It troubles me deeply, so bad I can’t sleep, went four days no sleep. All I’d say is I’d gladly take what happened to me in my accident any day over the event that one of my family members did. I can assure many that xmas dinner will never be the same.
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Thanks for posting! It's good to see you back. That is a beautiful fish, I think you will enjoy having him.Hello,
It’s been awhile and sorry I’ve been well yeah. Anyway I was lucky that the local aquarium still had my number. I was gifted a very large Naso male (streamers even), which is about 7 1/2 maybe but so neat. Is it sad that in my area 240 and 300 gallon are the largest we have. If I am able to ever get the 425 going, he would be perfect in that. But he came from a 125, so this is quite a bit bigger for him. He was very shy and stayed away, but later today he ate some brine, and then ate all the seaweed and was grazing. So that’s a relief. He still doesn’t aka like it (and my other fish as well), they don’t like it when I watch them lol. They only like me when I feed them. But if I walk by, they scatter into the reef. I have found that sitting back a ways brings them out more. They never use to until I moved. So here are some pics of the new Naso, now lol they are not great but I had to take them from like 10 feet away. He is still fairly shy so I caught him grazing . In some of the pics I have him against my blue hippo which is an easy 3 inches and purple, and he is like jaws in comparison lol.
Do I remember right that you use a feed mode to stop or slow your pumps? If so, try leaving your pumps running when you add the food. The Australians don't stop the waves near the Great Barrier Reef at feeding time and I've found the motion of faster moving food particles to stimulate feeding.Hello,
So it’s day four of the new tang in the tank and he isn’t as shy but still skittish and still hides. I have not been able to convince him to eat frozen yet he tried some but then stopped. He still grazes the rocks, and I put nori in every morning and night and it’s always gone. The only problem is, I cant confirm he is the one eating it, or the water is breaking it down. I know my other tangs don’t eat the algae because I have tried sooo many times and had to use the frozen seaweed in order for them to eat it. Curious as how to get him to eat frozen. I have the shrimp Myosis shrine brine, and I soak it with garlic as well. May try flake food with them as well and see what happens. Maybe mix them all together.
Do I remember right that you use a feed mode to stop or slow your pumps? If so, try leaving your pumps running when you add the food. The Australians don't stop the waves near the Great Barrier Reef at feeding time and I've found the motion of faster moving food particles to stimulate feeding.