When you see that total ammonia trend down, and more near to zero, then you can slowly and smartly add fish.
Fish-in tank starts are not bad in their own. They get a bad rap because people were stupid and added too many or went too fast. You don't have to get high ammonia with fish-in cycles. Most folks don't recommend them on the off chance that somebody is dumb - this is easy to understand since patience is not a virtue that most have. This is no different than bottled bacteria tank start where the days counted are not enough for a specific situation and there is still a trace of ammonia in the water when the fish get in there. If you go too fast or don't take the necessary steps, both methods are the same. Just because a fish does not die does not mean that the gills were not damaged by some ammonia - fish just don't have TV lawyers to file lawsuits on their behalf years later like mesothelioma or asbestos workers did.
4 days does not mean much. You could have already seen nh3/nh4 lower, but maybe not. Totally normal. You have to remember that not everybody has the same test kits and might be testing for different things. Your Hannah test kit tests for total ammonia nh3 and nh4. Some tools and test kit test for just nh3 - nh3 and nh4 change out many times a second depending on the pH and if a tool like a Seneye says that you have .03 ppm of nh3 at a pH of about 7.9, then that is close to 1.0 total ammonia which is not safe - this is why smart folks do not recommend to trust a seneye alone, including guys who have their own reef chemistry forums and have run some of the largest reefs in the world with hundreds of tanks in the back rooms starting up all of the time to get fish quarantined. Long winded way of saying that a total ammonia reading from Hannah is not the same as nh3 only from seneye or other test kits that only test nh3 - most hobbyists don't even know the difference and their experiences can often come without any nuance to apply to your situation.
What you are going through is OK. There is no one-size answer. Don't believe anybody who tells you so. It is good that you want to learn since that is the best way.
Fish-in tank starts are not bad in their own. They get a bad rap because people were stupid and added too many or went too fast. You don't have to get high ammonia with fish-in cycles. Most folks don't recommend them on the off chance that somebody is dumb - this is easy to understand since patience is not a virtue that most have. This is no different than bottled bacteria tank start where the days counted are not enough for a specific situation and there is still a trace of ammonia in the water when the fish get in there. If you go too fast or don't take the necessary steps, both methods are the same. Just because a fish does not die does not mean that the gills were not damaged by some ammonia - fish just don't have TV lawyers to file lawsuits on their behalf years later like mesothelioma or asbestos workers did.
4 days does not mean much. You could have already seen nh3/nh4 lower, but maybe not. Totally normal. You have to remember that not everybody has the same test kits and might be testing for different things. Your Hannah test kit tests for total ammonia nh3 and nh4. Some tools and test kit test for just nh3 - nh3 and nh4 change out many times a second depending on the pH and if a tool like a Seneye says that you have .03 ppm of nh3 at a pH of about 7.9, then that is close to 1.0 total ammonia which is not safe - this is why smart folks do not recommend to trust a seneye alone, including guys who have their own reef chemistry forums and have run some of the largest reefs in the world with hundreds of tanks in the back rooms starting up all of the time to get fish quarantined. Long winded way of saying that a total ammonia reading from Hannah is not the same as nh3 only from seneye or other test kits that only test nh3 - most hobbyists don't even know the difference and their experiences can often come without any nuance to apply to your situation.
What you are going through is OK. There is no one-size answer. Don't believe anybody who tells you so. It is good that you want to learn since that is the best way.