Not that that is a bad idea just kind of hard to do. Best bet would be get a couple good pics of their belly area and zoom in to see the shape of the little tiny sexual organ that is just behind the first bottom fin. I am not good with anatomy names sorry, I know what to look for though.
I dont know if I was lucky in the past but Just observing the fish in the lfs I never had an issue bringing 2 home and having them not spend all of their time together. Did I actually get a m/f pair I dont know at the time I didnt know how to sex them. Maybe I am just extremely lucky. They always seemed to "pair" up. I think my helfrichi "pair" actually became a mated pair though as I saw spawning behaviors from them regularly.