I have not had the best of luck with the stereo connectors. They are very finicky. I want to switch to a different type of plug but have not found anything that I really like yet. I like the idea of using telephone or cat 5 cable but have not really found any panel mount female ends that are not bulky and require a crimper tool. DB9 plugs are easy if you dont mind everything bundled into one cable but I kind of want individual cables per component. If you find anything good make sure and post it up.
That's what individual wires look like lol