Can you check with multimeter that outlet on/off working as expected on the connector pins in the relay (i.e. you are getting 12v or on at the other end of the connector wire, right at the junction of the relay)?
Next check if the relay works with everything else unplugged .
I think I figured it out. The relay power has 12 volts, the input gets a solid 3.3 volts and the relay LED lights up but does not click on. The voltage does not drop. It works the same both with everything plugged in and working on its own everything unplugged. However, if I put the relay input to 12 or 5 volts it clicks. If I swap the jumper to low level and bring the input to ground it clicks. Direct to the 3.3v rail and it just lights the Led. I need to find the specs but looks like the relays I got don’t activate below 5 volts

