@Marc Kruithof we are using relay board, which does some of this circuitry , https://www.sainsmart.com/products/8-channel-5v-relay-moduleHi MaccaPopEye,
You can't drive a mechanical relay directly from the RPI. The RPI simpely can't give enought power. So YES you need transistors or FET's to drive relays. Also why do you want two seperate for the relays? is there a specific reason? Can't you make a small drawing for what you want to build? I am sure we can help more if you do. And about ground. As you described it, it looks like you need ground connected from the pi but I'm not sure about how you are planning circuit.
