Just a thought/suggestion, turn all the items off in the aquarium, pumps heater etc... You may find that you have voltage from a piece of equipment that is not grounded in the aquarium but when you create the link from the aquarium to the light its grounded and you are the wire.
I've tested this stray voltage by taking a volt meter and having one probe of the meter in the water and the other probe touching the center screw on the outlet plate. This should be ground. If you have no voltage with the aquarium off, good base line. As you turn items back on test again until you find the item causing the stray voltage. Likely you have an item leaking stray voltage into the aquarium.
I've tested this stray voltage by taking a volt meter and having one probe of the meter in the water and the other probe touching the center screw on the outlet plate. This should be ground. If you have no voltage with the aquarium off, good base line. As you turn items back on test again until you find the item causing the stray voltage. Likely you have an item leaking stray voltage into the aquarium.