Stray voltage without a ground probe is bad. You will have to be grounded for you to feel that stray voltage.
Stray voltage with a ground probe is arguably worse, because it gives the current a place to go. Another words completes the circuit, you won’t need to be grounded to feel it, simply touch the water, and your fish feel it too
A ground probe plugged into a gfci outlet is the only way to go.
With a ground probe into a regular outlet you will need, around, the amperage that the breaker is rated for to trip. Another words 20 amps for a 20 amp breaker, etc. That’s a lot of power to get zapped with in water.
With ground probe plugged into gfci, a very slight fluctuation in ground will trip it. You might not even feel it.
Gfci will trip with stray voltage. Get yourself a gfci outlet or breaker for that line. Unplug everything to the tank. Hook up ground probe. Plug one thing in at a time until you find the one that trips the breaker. Then you will know which device is the culprit