We setup a water storage and saltwater mixing station in the spring of 2011 and couldn't be happier with it. Rather than fully automate the water change process with a hands-free design, we elected to go with one that would semi-automate the process, making mixing and water changes easy to do AND give us complete control.

The idea is to be able to move water between the vats, recirculate in the salt mix vat, and pump water out to the sump or perhaps a 5g bucket or other container with the turn of a few handles. We love Spa Flex and this seemed like a natural application for that - we wouldn't want minor movements or adjustments harming the plumbing, and being able to move things around a little to fine tune the fit always helps.

We added a waterproof switch to turn the pump on/off as needed.
Now to answer the questions:
How do you get the old water out of your tank? Where does the old water go? (sink, outside, other drain, do you drink it, JK)
Terry does most of our water changes. To avoid swallowing fish poo, she uses a modified
Mr. Cleaner (we ditched the filter sock and attached a vinyl hose) to start a siphon and drain water from our first sump into the sink that sits to the right of it.
We keep a number of fighting conchs and sea cucumbers in our DT. Although they do a wonderful job of keeping our sand bed turned over and clean, we do occasionally siphon the sand bed. When we do this, we drain the dirty water to a 45g Brute container on wheels and then dump that water down the bathroom drain using a small pump.
How do you get the new water in the tank?
At our water storage/mixing station, we open the necessary ball valves and turn on the pump switch to move the water to the tank. See above.
What equipment do you shut off during all this?
The Reef Fanatic level controller for our auto top-off. We normally do a weekly 10% water change (45g), but are able to change up to 65g of water without turning off any other equipment including the return pump and skimmers.
Do you do anything extra to the new water other than salt.
We test new saltwater once it's fully mixed for Ca, Mg and dKH and supplement as/when necessary using
BRS calculators.
Do you enter the new water into the sump or directly into the DT?
Into the sump before the skimmer.
New saltwater is added to our second sump (150g stock vat) after the main skimmer.
-M&T