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I'm not a Clowfish expert and I've never tried to breed them, but I have a few thoughts, and certainly more knowledgable members will be able to help you further.
Hey everyone,
I’m planning to start a small reef tank (around 15 gallons) and want to eventually try breeding clownfish. I’m wondering — if I just buy 2 clownfish, will they eventually pair up and breed on their own?
Typically, yes, but nothing is 100%
I’ve heard that one becomes female and the other stays male, but I’m not sure how reliable that is if I’m just picking two from a tank at random.
This is true, and I don't think it matters what fish you get (assuming they are of the same species). Absolutely all Clownfish do start life as male, and typically the largest and most dominate fish in a group will become a (the) female.
Should I do anything specific to help them pair?
I believe you should choose two Clownfish of noticeably dissimilar sizes, meaning, get one larger fish and one smaller fish. The larger one will almost certainly become the dominate fish and become a female, the smaller one will remain a subdominant male. I don't believe you can prevent this, or be left with two males or two females. However, there's no guarantee that you will get a breeder pair that lays eggs for you.
Also, how long does it usually take for them to start showing breeding behavior?
Again, I've never tried to breed them, but I'm going to go out on a limb and suggest anywhere from a few months to never. Although many, many Clownfish routinely spawn in many tanks, there's not necessarily a guarantee that yours will. Perhaps the guys who do breed them can help more here.
How do they breed how does it happen and how do I get them to lay eggs and raise them up.
I'm unsure of the nitty-gritty, but I am honestly all ears to learn too
What I can say is that it is not uncommon to see Clownfish pairs lay eggs in tanks, though it is quite the challenge to raise the fry. Please look into this a bit, at the very least I know you need to culture and raise rotifers to feed the tiny fry. They require timely feedings throughout the day, and will be very sensitive to polluted water, so feeding and maintenance can be a full time job.
Appreciate any advice or experience — especially from anyone who started with just a pair. Thanks!
Reef2Reef has a whole sub-forum discussing fish breeding, and I think if you check out some "stickies" (threads pined to the top of the sub-forum) or ask further questions in that sub-forum, you may get more and certainly better help than I'm able to offer
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I hope I've helped, but please double check anything I've said here with other more knowledgeable R2R members or other fish breeding experts.
Best of luck with your project!