No worries no offense taken, thanks for joining the thread! I think between how much emphasis gets put on "proper lighting" and then how many variables there are with lighting sources, measuring, and all the different corals preferences, it's one of those things where there's enough outside information to make people question if they're doing it "right". Plus if all your levels look normal I can understand how lighting would be the first thing you go to in terms of blame if something isn't going well.
Hopefully these meters continue to advance and get cheaper so some of the mystery can be taken out of it. While I doubt we'll get to a point where it's like salinity and you can say it should be around 1.026 with some confidence it would be nice to have some general ranges you can aim for and monitor like with chemical tests. That said this meter was only $150 after 25% off on F&S, so really one of the cheaper pieces of equipment I've bought so far!
Planning on calling them tomorrow to see what they say about use with LED before I start really modeling my tank, which I should have just done in the first place.