Wow, not trying to be mean, but you definitely have a major problem if you can't handle your financial responsibilities, but yet have money for coral. Any responsible person would tell you the same exact thing.
Can I ask a few questions here(to all)? I've always wondered these things.....
Does having a certain piece of coral in your tank fill some kind of void you have in your life? Do you sleep better at night? Do you get paid more at your job b/c you have a certain piece? Do you get more women b/c you have a certain piece of coral? Do you make friends easliy b/c you have a piece of coral? Does your car get better gas mileage b/c you have a certain piece?
Do you think you love corals more than someone else b/c you are willing to drop mega $$ on a collection of hyped up corals that you think are "elite or rare"?
Would you buy corals if you knew you could never ever sell them?
I dont want to sound rude,but please exusse your additude.
Alot of us buy rare,expensive,exotic corals because of their beauty they behold.I think some of the cheap corals are still nice,by all means.I think its nice to have a hobby in life to keep our selves occupied and out of bad or horrible things.I think most people would think the same thing.I dont blame people for spening $200 on a coral.Why?Thats how many cases of Drinks that they just didnt buy because they bought a coral that they will have for ever,and know they wont have a hangover in the moring and cant go to work.
I think this hobby just like any other,will have people who spend more,make more,and really probobly only want to make a buck off of the hobby.But I think there is no problem with spending money one stuff we enjoy,thats like "buying a new Race Car when you dont even like racing".Why spend your money else where when you can spend it on somthing you will enjoy.
And yes mabey,spending money to some helps some feel better,mabey it does help some sleep at night,and yes mabey it does make some look better and bigger,but when I put my head on my pillow at night,I know I enjoy my hobby and dont care what others buy,say,spend on corals.And I think any one who is dedicated to this hobby will tell you the same thing,"WE BUY CORAL FOR THE BEAUTY AND ENJOYMENT".If they dont,then they buy to make a buck.But I know I buy coral for enjoyment and the fun of the hobby.
Thank you,I hope you understand