I started with a 4 stage and then recently added a 5th stage, which was just adding a second carbon block. I barely need a DI stage with my water.
I'm running:
.5 micron sediment filter
5 micron carbon filter (will replace with another .5 or 1 micron in the future)
.5 micron carbon filter
RO
mixed bed DI
triple TDS meter
probe 1 = source water (city water 80 TDS during winter, 100 TDS during summer)
probe 2 between RO and DI
probe 3 product water, post DI.
I don't go through much DI. In fact, I've never had to change my DI yet.
I often get 0 TDS out of my RO membrane, so I'm not sure my DI is even doing anything much of the time. Truthfully, I could probably get by without a DI stage if I had too.
Your really won't know what you need until you get it hooked up and see what you have in your water. Everyone's water is different.