They are expensive everywhere! If you got 3 years out of a terminal male flasher you are doing good, a little longer if it's not terminal yet. Not anywhere worth it for me, but to each their own.
Thanks guys, I knew in my heart this was the answer but it helps reaffirm it hearing it from you guys if I can't get at least 5-10 years as a rough indication I can't justify the price then, will save it for a tinkeri or cirrhilabrus I think insteadPretty short. IMO & IME, 4-5 years total life span.
Agree with TJ. Buying a terminal male like that might only give 6 months of enjoyment... But there's no way you'd get more than 3 years.
+1 to that, and to the 2nd point as well. I'd love to have nursalim just as much (maybe more), but I won't fork over more than $500 for a Paracheilinus any more simply for these reasons.
(I always try and buy female wrasses too! I love the transition process and longer lifespan!)